Parental alienation is a serious and complex issue within family conflicts that can have far-reaching consequences for both the alienated parent and the child.
Parental alienation occurs when a child is unjustly influenced or manipulated by one parent to sever or seriously damage the bond with the other parent.
This form of emotional abuse can lead to prolonged legal disputes and psychological traumas for all involved parties.
Characteristics of parental alienation
Parental alienation can manifest in various ways, ranging from subtle manipulation to outright rejection of the alienated parent. Some characteristics of parental alienation include:
Negative influence:
One parent continuously pressures the child to think negatively about the other parent, for example, by spreading lies or ignoring the positive qualities of the alienated parent.
Isolation:
The child is systematically isolated from the alienated parent and their family members, undermining the chance of a healthy parent-child relationship.
Alienation:
The child develops hostile feelings towards the alienated parent without any identifiable reason, often as a result of prolonged manipulation by the other parent.
Resistance to contact:
The child actively resists having contact with the alienated parent and refuses to comply with visitation arrangements.
The crucial role of a specialized lawyer
Parental alienation poses a significant challenge for all family law stakeholders due to the subtlety and complexity of the dynamics between the involved parties.
Furthermore, there still exists a significant taboo around parental alienation, and the issue is often downplayed, even by professionals.
However, in situations involving parental alienation, it is crucial to recognize the problem as soon as possible and take timely action to prevent escalations while ensuring the well-being of the child and the alienated parent as much as possible.
Many healthcare providers and magistrates are not sufficiently familiar with this issue. Thus, a specialized lawyer can play an essential role by acting quickly and decisively. Together, strategies for building a case can be discussed, including measures such as initiating mediation, applying parallel solo parenting, and, in escalated situations, filing a case with a competent family court.
Additionally, it may be opportune to provide psychological support by a specialist familiar with the issue of parental alienation. Psychological counseling or coaching can increase the resilience of the alienated parent and guide in processing the emotional distress caused.
Keyser Advocaten offers a comprehensive approach where necessary support is provided to the client in consultation with various stakeholders.
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